Military Leadership and Stigma: Preventing Suicide Among MST Survivors
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Dear Reader, As a retired Army combat veteran and former instructor for the Sexual Harassment Assault Response Prevention (SHARP) Course for the Army, I’ve seen firsthand how stigma can be deadly, especially for male Military Sexual Trauma (MST) survivors. Suicide is the second leading cause of death among service members and veterans, and stigma from leaders plays a massive role in elevating that risk. Your role matters whether you’re still in the military or leading in the private sector. Changing the conversation around Sexual Trauma and helping others could save lives. Let's not kid ourselves; sexual assault happens everywhere, not just in dark alleys and parking lots; it happens in homes and offices. Most of it goes unreported, so don't say not in my organization because you're wrong. Learn how we can break the cycle of silence. Read the full article here. If you or someone you know needs help, the Veterans Crisis Line is available 24/7. Dial 988, then press one or text 838255. Warm regards, |
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