Why I Walked Away from the Army After 26 Years


I’ve been reflecting on a pivotal moment—two years ago, I decided to leave the Army after 26 years of service. For many, it seemed like an odd move. After all, I was on track for another promotion and a solid finish to my military career. But for me, it was more than just about the next rank. It was about staying true to my values, even when the organization I loved shifted away from them. 💯

I recently shared this story with a close mentor, a fellow warrior, and a brother in Christ. He pushed me to reflect on that decision and share my insights. Looking back, I realize that walking away wasn’t about quitting—it was about integrity. I had to choose between staying for status or leaving to stand firm in my beliefs. 🚶‍♂️

In my latest blog post, I dive deep into why I walked away from a 26-year military career. It was easy, the right decision for me, my faith, and my leadership journey. 🌟

Here’s a quick snippet from the post:

"Leadership isn’t about climbing the ranks or collecting titles. True leadership requires resilience—the strength to stay true to your convictions, even when the world around you shifts. It’s about knowing when to hold on and when to move on."

If you’ve ever been in a situation where you had to make a tough decision because it was the right thing to do—even if it meant walking away from a great opportunity—then I think this will resonate with you. 💪

🎯 Read the full story here for a few minutes.

And as always, I’d love to hear your thoughts! Hit reply and let me know how you’ve navigated tough decisions in your leadership journey. For more personal stories like this, check out my recent podcast episodes or follow me on social media for more insights. I’m here to serve you and help you build your leadership and resilience muscle. 💥


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You are uniquely qualified to lead, and your story is valuable. Let’s keep building resilient leadership together!

Talk soon,

P.S. I’ll be sharing more reflections on leadership, faith, and resilience in the coming weeks. Don’t miss out—stay connected!

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